Most men have a deep-down instinct for male friendships. It’s true most men are “homosexual” in their social relationships. Beside, our base instincts tells us to “compare” to other men, especially in looks, athletic figure, cock size, cut or uncut. We all human beings wish to have more freedom even to the point of touching another man’s body, cock, etc. Perhaps even trying to fuck a man or vice-versa. This does not mean that all males are either bisexual or gay, but there is something there, according to Freud, that makes kinky when we think about other men, especially close male friends. So, having an obsession with gay porno, doesn’t necessarily mean that you are gay. Most of us keep this obsession for gay porno and large dicks hidden in out hearts. We have been repressed by society, Judeo-Christian religion, and our own manliness. Most men would love to feel free and touch their closest male friend’s cock, even some would love to suck it, or vice-versa. We males are not one hundred percent straight. That’s for sure! So, don’t feel bad. Anon

I am not attracted to men, per say. I don’t see men as sexy, look at their asses, etc. However, seeing a naked man, I get aroused. I love being in a group of naked men, seeing all the different cocks, especially if they’re hard. I love being naked around other naked men. I was 54 before I fully accepted that I enjoyed sex with other men. Just fondling, frotting, body contact and the closeness. Feeling a man’s hard cock in my hands and mouth is so hot. Feeling a nice set of balls is a turn on. I’m very, very oral and love everything about it. Tasting, swallowing his cum, all of it. But I love pussy too. Especially orally.

Don

Like you I am only attracted to women in public and would never reveal to my friends how much I love cock. I love seeing cocks, it arouses me, I want to touch cock and suck cock; I just can’t get rid of this urge. You are lucky to have gay friends. I would love to have a secret gay friend and spend time in his house with us both naked and stroking our dicks in front of each other. I would also like to suck on a beautiful cock until he emptied his load into my mouth.

Mark

37 thoughts on “ Homosexual Friendships

  1. Honestly, I hate to be antagonistic…but is this the ultimate denial thread?

    ”I’m not attracted to men’s bodies, …but I get aroused by being around naked men, holding a hard cock, sucking cock, fondling balls, swallowing cum…”

    I mean… what will it take for some of you her to admit the glaring obvious?? This is so damn cringe… **shrug**

    1. It took me a while to admit the truth. Now I am so much happier than I thought was possible.

    2. Yes. I know what you mean Ben. Butt. What if you genuinely find women attractive and are turned on by your wife? Both can be true. And the point they make is that they have a fetishistic interest in cock but not in a romantic male on male love. The issue of gay or straight is not binary. It can and frequently is both. That seems quite common, though not discussed. Is that just greedy? Or is it a reflection of a deep truth that heteroflexible is more common than we care to admit. Women typically don’t want to have sex with men who have sex with men. So that leaves a bisexual in a person difficult position. Burn the bridge with women and cumm out as “gay” and you effectively condemn yourself to entirely man on man sex forever in the future. I know men who have made that choice and say man on man is just better sex. There is validity to that point. However, I am not sure what I would do without pussy, tits and a soft warm woman to wake up next to, cuddle and flirt with. They make things civilised and nice. They are complex and intriguing. I love women and want them in my life romantically. Men – I like dudes as buddies and for having a laugh. I like the robust humour and competition. I like the physical. I like cock and the straightforward sex that is possible with a man. I appreciate a muscled hairy chest. But to deprive me of one and giving me no option but to focus solely on men would not make me happy. I am very happy to admit I have homosexual arousal. But that’s not my whole story. I fucken LOVE being aroused by a woman too. Is that “bi”, “flexible”, Kinsey 4, bromosexual, confused? I don’t know. I don’t feel confused. I feel like I am in charge of my instincts and enjoy sensual and sexual experiences across the board. I feel sane. However, I do worry about whom I may hurt. I care for the people I have sex with as such intimate acts create emotional bonds. I don’t like the bifurcated truth being told. I have history with my wife whom I treasure. I love spending time with her. I love her body, her skin, her fragrance, her hair. But I’m not sure I am in denial that I am simply in the process of cumming out as exclusively gay. Perhaps I just need another Martini. Blessings Ben. Would love to suck you off one day.

      1. So expertly explained and written.
        It is what I wanted to say but couldn’t put it across as well as you.
        Thank you.

  2. It’s very simple. I’m a masculine man but go bonkers over cock. I love it so much. Anybody else?

    1. I love women and they turn.me.on but at the same time I love cock too. I want to suck on a cock and feel it explode in my mouth and then swallow all that lovely cum. I have nervously masturbated a couple of other cocks and gave them a little suck and also had mine sucked to completion. I don’t class myself as gay but would love to spend the night with a sexy man fucking my arse and sucking each other off through the night.

      1. I too consider myself masculine. I enjoy seeing naked women, ive the scent and taste of pussy. I have no gay or feminine manurisums. I don’t look at men seeing them as attractive or sexy lije I do women. But with other naked men either one on one or in a group, I’m immediately attracted to their cocks. I love and enjoy everything about them. From fondling, JO with them, for them or stroking them off but especially love the feel of a man’s cock in my mouth. I love sucking cock and to swallow a hot, salty, sweet load. Juat being able to enjoy and pleasure another man’s cock is so arousing.

        1. So you don’t find men attractive until you see them naked? My guess is that’s cuz you became so used to women satisfying your sexual needs that you needed the shock of seeing a man naked to work as a trigger to unleash the gay side of your sexuality. Not being bisexual myself (I’m totally gay, Don) I can imagine your anxiety at realizing this additional desire was a part of you. My advice for you is to look a little more carefully at men wearing clothes (glimpses of bicep, flat bellies under shirts, bulges behind pants) – it’s a world of visual delights, buddy. Removing layers of clothing is what it’s all about, working your way gradually to the prize. Feeling the guy’s muscles behind the fabric, then getting him to let you pull his zipper down. I’m getting aroused now just thinking of it. So will you.

        2. No, not a shock value or whatever you said. Its just something that turns me on. I may look at a clothed man and wonder what’s in his pants if there’s a nice bulge, but other than that, no. I spent years in a gym weight training and I do admire a muscular man in a nice tight shirt. But it’s seeing men naked, their cocks that turn me on. Muscular bears, definitely. Youngish, well built men yes, but I always focus on their cock. Its just my thing, sorry, has nothing to do with conditioning.

      1. Would you actually pursue your urges though. Naked men and cock turn me on so much. I am in a straight relationship but I am craving cock so much of the time. Male time together is amazing and so sexy when nude and everything is available to see,touch and taste.

    2. Best Friend~ Harry Nilsson

      People, let me tell you ’bout my best friend
      He’s a warm hearted person who’ll love me till the end
      People, let me tell you bout my best friend
      He’s a one boy cuddly toy, my up, my down, my pride and joy

      People, let me tell you ’bout him he’s so much fun
      Whether we’re talkin’ man to man or whether we’re talking son to son
      ‘Cause he’s my best friend
      Yes he’s my best friend

      La-la
      Pa-da-da-da-yah
      Pa-da-da-da-yah
      Pa-da-da-da-yah
      Pa-bom-pa-bom, wah-wah
      Ru-ba-da-bee-pee
      Bo-bo-pee-ba
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      Bo-bo-pee-ba
      Whoops

  3. I am not attracted to men, per say. I don’t see men as sexy, look at their asses, etc. However, seeing a naked man, I get aroused. I love being in a group of naked men, seeing all the different cocks, especially if they’re hard. I love being naked around other naked men. I was 54 before I fully accepted that I enjoyed sex with other men. Just fondling, frotting, body contact and the closeness. Feeling a man’s hard cock in my hands and mouth is so hot. Feeling a nice set of balls is a turn on. I’m very, very oral and love everything about it. Tasting, swallowing his cum, all of it. But I love pussy too. Especially orally.

    1. Same here. I loved women, and in public I am only attracted to women. But I am attracted to cocks more than to men! I have a gay couple who are my special friends, and I am attracted to them now after many years of being in love to their cocks!

      1. I can relate. I am not attracted to men, their asses, or anything about them other than their cocks. I find women attractive, sexy, love seeing them in sexy attire. Not at all that way with men. But in a group of naked men, seeing all those beautiful cocks, mmm, I just want to suck them all and swallow every load I can

      2. Hi David, like you I am only attracted to women in public and would never reveal to my friends how much I love cock. I love seeing cocks, it arouses me, I want to touch cock and suck cock; I just can’t get rid of this urge. You are lucky to have gay friends. I would love to have a secret gay friend and spend time in his house with us both naked and stroking our dicks in front of each other. I would also like to suck on a beautiful cock until he emptied his load into my mouth.

      3. I wish so much to have a secret gay friend, to spend time with to show our cocks to each other and maybe stroke and suck each other. Just being naked amongst another man would be amazing and so erotic. Just reading and writing these posts is turning me on.
        One day I am having cock 🙂

  4. I feel most sorry for men who are raised in such an uptight world that they’re afraid to see another man naked, to touch another man naked, and to permit themselves to have a conscious thought of what another man naked might look like, or how he would feel if they touched each other. Such facets of a male’s personality do not make a man gay. They reflect a man who is quite normal and one who has normal feelings… RobtheElder

    1. Robert, what you have said makes a lot of sense to me as I was raised in that uptight world

    2. Rob, I think your advice is so caring and lovely. Having worked officially with men whose violence seems to have had its origins in confusions about their sexuality I would love to see the advice being picked up by parents and teachers. I have had my own uncertainties which have been a cause of stress at the time and so advice like yours is so freeing and compassionate.

    3. This is so true I was raised that way but my male love liberated me from that. The most incredible experience came from breaking over giving into my love for other men.

  5. I would have to agree. I long suspected my ex had a craving for cock but he was never honest about it. After we split, we were both having a sexual dry spell and had a fuck buddy arrangement for a while. I told him I like to masturbate to gay porn and had used to fantasise about fucking him with a strap on. He started chatting to guys online and send me a vid of him sucking a guy off. It was awesome! He fucking loved it!! He played around with a couple of guys, it was never an issue for me and it was hot AF!! Sadly our relationship could never work out, it just makes me sad the sex we could have been having if he was more honest about himself. I honestly think that most humans are sexually fluid, though I can’t describe myself that way…yet. Women do turn me on but I’ve never met a woman who turned me on sexually though I have been propositioned. I definitely watch more gay porn than I do straight, “female friendly” porn and I’ll watch pretty much anything I flick the bean a lot. 2 guys, 2 girls, 3 of each and a transsexual! If it turns me on I’m all for it, but I think cock sucking is empowering for both giver and receiver. I really do like cock a lot!!

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