To me, “touch” is not just putting your hands on someone’s body, but also, to touch them with your eyes by examining every inch of their body, with your ears by listening to their breath and heart beat. Furthermore, to make “touch” deeper and more enjoyable, I feel like the two parties involved must adopt a somewhat ritualistic pattern to their experience. For example, I believe it’s always great to start the session sitting down on the floor facing each other, cross legged with both knees touching and eyes locked, to add trust and intimacy to the session, then move to the more comfortable position, like placing ones head and back to the other man’s chest to give them full control and a deeper connection.From a Member’s Profile
I had a guy come over for a masturbation session yesterday, And reading this afterwards it has convinced me that the experience would have been greatly enhanced with a more intentional process of coming in from the street and getting at it. Not sure what that would be, or if there would be different ways for different men and situations (ie multiple arrivals), but for sure this experience yesterday was an attempt to go from 0 to 60 mph (to use a metaphor) that was less than wonderful. The awkwardness is natural, to be expected, not a surprise…so getting through that and THEN moving into play is crucial in my opinion.Massey
i would like to touched in the way that all my body electricity is activated. to be able to experience a connection and warmth that is between the love of the mother and father and the sacred birth of myself. i would like to be broth in the space of my very beginning where the innocence of sexual energy rises… i am looking for my source of passion and compassion… the light that starts my interest for Life and Living.