New Sexuality

Hi Seb, I always enjoy reading your thoughts, ideas and wisdom. I think you should write a book called something like the “New Sexuality” which every man should read!When I first came across your […]

MY DEAR SUN

I SWEAR MY DEAR SUN no one in the entire world is as precious as you are. …look at that mirror take a good look at yourself who else is there above and beyond you […]

lots of love and penetration…

Mr Cox, First of all I’d just like to say that I really like your site. Secondly I wonder if you could offer some advice here. I’m a 32 year old male who has never […]

worshipping the self

For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my orgasms. […]

50% of Young Brits Not Heterosexual

According to A British Government Survey 50% of Young Brits are ‘not exclusively heterosexual. Half of young Brits say they are ‘not exclusively heterosexual’ with a quarter of all UK adults saying they are gay […]

Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal depth […]

a sexual awakening

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the […]

I’m the best lover I know

A long time ago I thought that sex would die after about age 49 or so. Now almost 10 years past that point, I realize that the best experiences will come from those with […]

The art of gay cruising

Sex expert encourages men to try cruising at least once in their life. Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. The […]

Sex Body Spirit

I have been surfing your site for a while and it speaks loads to me. Your whole approach to sex, body, spirit and most of all, as a man who seems complete, is refreshing. […]

secret ways

If the door shuts, do not go away. Be patient, even if every possibility seems closed. The friend has secret ways known to no one else knows. Related Coxologyi desire art gallerythe vacuum pumpBig […]

What Is A ‘Pornosexual?’

What Is A ‘Pornosexual?’ The New Sexual Orientation For Those Who Watch Porn, And Shun Real Sex. According to Medical Daily, the new term describes a person whose ‘sexual orientation is linked solely to […]

Anatomy of the Prostate

I learned as a young man in school the anatomy of the Prostate Gland  and that, among other  functions, it produces  a thin, milky, alkaline fluid that is secreted into the urethra at the […]

Deer Exercise

The Male Deer Exercise is an ancient Taoist exercise designed to improve male sexual health. It is believed that it can transform a man’s sexual health, and strengthen the body’s sex organs and helps […]

Aphrodisiac’ Nutrients

This article will focus on food supplements that can enhance sexual pleasure and performance. Kian explains. Amino acids (AAs) AAs often occur in nature in two forms which are mirror image molecules, denoted by […]

fucking this straight guy

Hello Mr Cox, I’m a gay man and I’ve been fucking this straight guy for about a year. He doesn’t want to kiss, hug or get emotional. He just likes his ass played with….and […]

what I am afraid of

I want you to imagine for a moment that you are feeling stressed, tired, even a little emotionally fucked up. Close you eyes and think of someone you really like and find sexually attractive. […]

54 year old male

I am a well put together 54 year old male. I am very comfortable considering myself gay, and I live an “out” life, but most often new acquaintances who are not gay, or who […]

A Blessed Gift from God

I have to do this everyday: I am senior bear and if you had told me when I was a kid, that I would one day March in a Gay Pride parade, I wouldn’t […]

The Place Where We Are Right

From the place where we are rightFlowers will never growIn the spring. The place where we are rightIs hard and trampledLike a yard. But doubts and lovesDig up the worldLike a mole, a plow.And […]