Citolapram Nightmares

I took Citolapram (Celexa). The doctor said it might mean “possibly some experience of ED”. My wife said that would be a good thing to “give her a rest”. Well, It was a FUCKING nightmare and worse than the anxiety/depression. I came off them after about 2 1/2 years and took a long time to … Read moreCitolapram Nightmares

The art of gay cruising

Sex expert encourages men to try cruising at least once in their life. Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. The art of gay cruising dates back decades, to the days when “homosexual conduct” was illegal, gay bars didn’t exist, and bathhouses … Read moreThe art of gay cruising

Revolutionize My Sexuality

Maybe it’s more than just a coincidence that I found your website when it seems it may lead me to find what I’ve been searching for, someone to revolutionize my sexuality, and sex life.  I have always believed that through sex I could experience a spiritual high that would touch, stroke my soul. You wrote … Read moreRevolutionize My Sexuality

sex, body, spirit

I have been surfing your site for a while and it speaks loads to me. Your whole approach to sex, body, spirit and most of all, as a man who seems complete, is refreshing. I had a lover once who showed me the ropes into tantric sex. The first time I came with him, I cried. … Read moresex, body, spirit

a star without a name…

Tantra teaches us that your sexuality has two energy sources, male and female. Therefore everyone’s sexuality is bisexual. That’s how you came here, like a star without a name. How you choose to use your energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy your sexuality.

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Whether or not you express this through a physical sex act, everyone has the ability to receive male and female sexual energy. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door to your heart’s desire. While you may be attracted to sex with someone of the opposite gender, as what is opposite can be balancing. Butt, even a slight change in your sexual energy can lead to a different desire. If this pushes you towards a different experience that fulfils your particular needs at that time that is OK. For example, maybe you are usually attracted to and more comfortable with members of the opposite sex who are around the same age as yourself. Occasionally, for whatever reasons, you may need to mate with someone who happens to be much older or younger than you are. Therefore, you will be attracted to such partners. You’re not born with a defined sexuality. It comes to you, unconsciously during your childhood. You’re pointed in a certain direction, but it does not define it. It leaves you with choices which you may, or may not choose to acknowledge. Events from the past can be stored in the very prostate of your mind and may surface at any time.

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Some choose bisexual tantra as they find this leads to an internal balance, an inner calmness. There may have been an absence of male love during your childhood so as an adult you can balance that. Or there could have been same-sex relationships that were hurtful and damaged you. Now as an adult you can heal and balance this. I have often felt when I hear someone being homophobic that what they really need is some sexual healing, some balancing. They have difficulty even hugging someone of the same sex. As that brings up fears that they are being sexual with a member of the same sex. If they are honest and accept this tiny part of there sexuality they will learn compassion, something they desperately need to balance not only their own sexuality but to balance their soul.  If you can place your hand on your heart and state that you are 100% heterosexual or homosexual, fine. Butt remember you are capable of bisexuality and you could be more balanced, happier, more fulfilled, if that option were truly open to you. I am not necessarily talking about sexual intercourse, but your ability to express physically affection. If you’re not so fucking rigid about your masculinity, about your sexuality, you will have a greater freedom to express yourself. A greater freedom to love, in what ever form you choose to express that love. In other words do what ever makes you happy

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Hi, Mr Cox, before I read your blog I thought I was straight, but now I’m not so sure as I really do want to stroke and suck the cocks pictured. Trouble is I’m too afraid to set up a meeting with a  dude. Also I’m married and don’t want to fuck myself up with … Read morestr8 @ 48 ?

getting what you really want…

You will be best at sex that involves getting what you really want. Never forget that. If you want to have really good sex, it has to involve what YOU WANT/NEED.

Practising asking for what you really want/need as this brings greater awareness, communications and sexual pleasure. Every Time you have sex you should begin by having your cock massaged, or should I say worshipped for at least 20 minutes. We have to learn how to very gently whisper how it is we like to have our cocks massaged. And once we have learned to gently whisper, then we need to climb to the top of a mountain and shout, like a wild animal… Harry Shishna

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BRO!

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I REMEMBER MY FRIEND AND I GETTING IT ON WITH A WOMEN WHO WANTED THE BOTH OF US TO STICK OUR DICKS IN HER MOUTH AT THE SAME TIME. WHAT MADE ME CUM WAS THE FEEL OF HIS BIG DICK SLIDING AGAINST MINE WHEN WE WERE ERECT. THEN SHE WANTED THE 2 OF US TO … Read moreI KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BRO!

defined sexuality

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You are not born with a defined sexuality. It comes to you, unconsciously during your childhood. Your pointed in a a certain direction, but it does not define it. It leaves you with choices which you may, or may not choose to acknowledge.

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Events from the past can be stored in the very prostate of your mind and may surface at any time. You are an adult, you have free will. What you do with these choices is up to you. Some choose homosexual relationships as they find this leads to an internal balance, an inner calmness. There may have been an absence of male love during your childhood so as an adult you can balance that. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door to your heart’s desire. While you may be attracted to sex with someone of the opposite gender, as what is opposite can be balancing. But, even a slight change in your sexual energy can lead to a different desire. If this pushes you towards a different experience that fulfills your particular needs at that time, that is the very essence of you.

Deer Exercise

The Male Deer Exercise is an ancient Taoist exercise designed to improve male sexual health. It is believed that it can transform a man’s sexual health, and strengthen the body’s sex organs and helps men to experience full-body orgasms. It can also help to strengthen your erection, increase semen production and promotes prostatic health.

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For best results the Male Deer Exercise should be done when you are naked and relaxed, and when you have a really firm erection, seems to work best with your “morning erection”. To be effective, it should be performed daily. It will give you great sexual energy and will improve your overall physical and mental well-being. At the end of the exercise you should give your arse a good wiggle (flutter) as you smile broadly, as if you were a deer. To begin, sit comfortably on the edge of a chair, with your cock and balls gently hanging over the edge. It is important to be in a warm environment.

It is important to maintain a smile throughout the exercise. Now, rest your hands on your lap. Make your hands into fists by encircling your thumbs with your fingers. Pull your finger in tightly as this activates a number of important acupressure points. Continue to breathe deeply and then contract and lift the perineum (the muscles between your balls and your arse). It will seem as you are gently lifting your balls. Keep breathing deeply as you relax while holding the contraction for a minute, or as long as is comfortable. You only need to do this step once. Feel the energy emanate from your perineum muscle travel around your body, tingly downward to our feet, and upwards through your spine up into your brain.

If your not sure which muscle to contract think of the muscle you would use to stop pissing in the middle of a really strong piss, that’s the muscle to contract and lift.

a sexual awakening

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the sexuality that exists between men, gay or str8.

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You seem to deal with male sexual hunger in a confident and mature fashion. It has always been my argument that everyone, men and women, should have sex with members of both sexes–preference aside–if for nothing else to experience a different type of body, a different type of pleasure.  I’m jealous. I’d like to be as confident and able as yourself. I’m 32 and going through a sexual awakening. Sex up until now has been mostly in response to someone else´s desires…reactionary. I want to sort this, be more confident and defining in my wants and desires.  I want to learn to be fucked, to receive. The only time I have enjoyed anal sex is when I have been high on coke or X, and boy did I LOVE it, but only when high, and that has been only 4 times in 12 years of gay sex. Would or could you teach me? I have a fantasy of being pounded, big cock, or cocks, mouth, ass, whereever. Not so original I know, but its what I’d like.

I visit your site often, as I said before, and often times I become so horney I have to go for a wank in the office toilet.  I’m in Spain now, but am thinking about a long weekend in London sometime in October. If so I’ll make an appointment so you can show me all I was never shown. I have complete confidence in you, your site has sold me, excited me, it’s had me in the fucking toilet here at work, wanking!!!  Dave

Heterosexuality

I have to do this everyday: I am senior bear and if you had told me when I was a kid, that I would one day March in a Gay Pride parade, I wouldn’t have been able to get my mind around it. Brought up in the twisted world of Fifties wacko Irish-American Catholicism, I … Read moreHeterosexuality

Take Me to Church

  A protest song about the way homosexuals are being treated in Modern Day Russia, this talented Irish Singer/Songwriter is a star. It has received over 3 million views on YouTube. Hozier told the Evening Standard in London: “The song is about loving somebody, and the video is about people who would undermine what it is … Read moreTake Me to Church

GROWING TO WHITE HEAT

When the soul is plunged in the fire of divine love, like iron, it first loses its blackness, and then growing to white heat it becomes like unto the fire itself. And lastly, it grows liquid, and, losing its nature, is transmuted into an utterly different quality of being. And as the difference between iron … Read moreGROWING TO WHITE HEAT

New Sexuality

 Hi Seb, I always enjoy reading your thoughts, ideas and wisdom. I think you should write a book called something like the “New Sexuality” which every man should read! When I first came across your website I had pomised myself a session with you but alas for me you are now retired I believe. Well, … Read moreNew Sexuality