Morning Woods

Men are supposed to wake up with an erection every morning. Seriously, if you’re in “good health,” your body is hard-wired for “morning wood.” In fact, nocturnal erections—also known as “sleep-related erections” (SREs) […]

Men & Trees

When you go out into the woods and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. And some of them are bent, and some of them are straight, and some of […]

Sexual Desires

Hello from reading your site it seems clear to me that sex has more to do with energy and desire than sexual orientation. From school we are taught not to much about sex […]

The Platonic Blow

The Platonic Blow, (sometimes known as “A Day for a Lay” or “The Gobble Poem“) is an erotic poem by W. H. Auden. Thought to have been written in 1948, the poem gleefully describes […]

proudly bisexual

Hi. I’m a 24 year old bisexual guy from Manchester and sex has always confused me. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a half now, but I’ve always been aware of […]

Heteroplatonic

Thanks, your article is a revelation to me. I have long known intuitively sexuality is far more complex than just the straight-gay-bi continuum which is why I have always been unable to define […]

Homoerotic Precum

I have become interested after having the most intense homoerotic dream that left me so hard I could not believe I was capable of it. I now cannot get the dream out of […]

a quiet wank with a bloke

I respect Jay’s point of view in as far as he defines it. As a gay man who never fancies women he clearly has it sorted. Black and white as he says. But […]

Jay’s Philosophy

hello Mr Cox, I think being bisexual can often be quite a lonely journey.  That is the sad, sad, truth. Even though I have a fantastic wife, she can never fully understand me, […]

Capable of HaPenis?

How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door […]

str8 or gay ?

I distinguish between sexual orientation, romantic orientation, and platonic orientation because many straight guys, for example, have gay sex on the side.  They often say, “It’s only sex.”  To me, they are heteroromantic […]

Me & My HaPenis

Me & My Penis – Artist Laura Dodsworth This is a response to photographer Laura Dodsworth’s Me and my penis: 100 men reveal all, see above.. It all looks a bit sad to […]

Forest Therapy

The benefits of forest therapy are partly due to various plant-derived essential oils called phytoncides – airborne chemicals with antibacterial and antifungal qualities, which plants and trees emit to protect themselves from germs […]

Sexual Identity?

“Society is so hypocritical and limiting. The fact that one calls oneself “straight” or whatever doesn’t reveal anything about one’s true fantasies or desires. It’s not that people can truly know every aspect […]

How Do I Know?

I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t […]

gay identified bisexual man

I am a gay identified bisexual man in a loving sexual relationship with my best friend. A statuesque (6ft) beautiful sexy woman of 40. I enjoy giving her the greatest sexual pleasures of […]

wide open

The first time i allowed my arse ( and all that) to soak up sun was during my first visit to a nudest lake during a business trip to Austin Tx. Being married & […]