I like soft long strokes from base to tip. Circling my head then back to the base, carrying on down to my balls, gentl king coupling my balls. I do like to use a lot of oil during the massage. Not too rough, but quite sensual. I don’t mind taking it slow or of there are a few tricks up your sleeve I’d be more than happy for you to demonstrate. Focus on the tip and the balls. Firm massage of the balls and delicate touches at the tip.