A young man asked on the old site.
Can men have wet dreams about real men?
Does this mean I am gay?
What a great question.
1-Having a dream doesn’t make anything tangible.
2-Having actual sex with a person of the same sex won’t make you gay just as much as having straight sex won’t make you straight????
Geeezus people…get over yourself. What is missing here is the fact that young men aren’t educated by real men about sexuality and I am not talking physical…but as a mentor. When I was young I resisted being gay. One time I had a wet dream with a woman in it and I was like YAAAA I am not gay lol…WRONG lol. But I believe that 99% of wet dreams are homosexual based and that straight guys are afraid to acknowledge this fact. I have many wet dreams where I am sucking my own dick (what does that mean lol) and in the end…it’s a wet dream…YAAAA. As men, we need to let the young men know that waking up with morning wood when your buddy stays over doesn’t make you gay. Having an erection in the gym showers doesn’t make you gay just as much as having an erection in math class doesn’t make you a pervert lol. Stop the if-then routine and use the Hey…I like this…and be yourself.
BCHNCA
Dreams are bizarre, and sex dreams even more so. If you want to dip your toe in the all (nude) men’s pool, though, a circle jerk is probably the best way to start.