While I prefer to please a man as I am pleased, I can adapt the use of my fingers, hands, lips, tongue and mouth to reflect his needs. Ideally (after initial preparation, including the optimal ambiance available) I want our entire naked bodies to be as close as possible without actually touching to absorb each other’s warmth and aura.
I always end this procedure by breathing into each other’s mouth. I will position his supine body on a comfortable surface with his legs spread, and a soft pillow or rolled up towel elevating his hips. I will have him place his feet flat on the surface and draw them up to meet his buttock, and then spread his knees.
Then I let my warm hands, moist with coconut oil hover over each of his chakras, to transfer energy. After visiting each chakra I return my left hand to hover over his fourth (heart) chakra and my right hand to hover over his genitals and anal area (first chakra). Slowly my hands, now warm with and generous laden with coconut oil (sometimes I use olive, grapeseed, almond or other edible oils) make contact with him. I tell him to breath deeply and never to hold his breath, not to resist but to just let go as if he were riding on a gentle wave. We breathe in unison. I will speak to him gently relating that he is a male supreme being of the creative force, and we are taking a journey together.
I will communicate with him, throughout, with words of assurance and comfort, but, primarily, with my fingers, hands, lips, tongue, and mouth, and that he will experience many plateaus of sensation (not yet orgasm) where he will feel a oneness with the creative force. Throughout the objective will be to channel his inner energy through six of his chakras to the First Chakra (The Root chakra), located at the genitals on the front of the body, and the base of the spine in the rectal area. This is the center of the sexual/genital area, and gateway to sexual identity and source of orgasmic sensation and the act of creation. This collective energy can be transmitted via the spinal nerve cells to the pineal gland to release endorphins, serotonin, dopamine, etc, creating a state of “whole body” bliss akin to a collective physical and mental, and spiritual orgasm. Paul