Sexual Desires

Hello from reading your site it seems clear to me that sex has more to do with energy and desire than sexual orientation. From school we are taught not to much about sex but […]

Taoist Wanking

Taoism asks for wanking without preconceived ideas. It is an ancient Chinese philosophy that is about wanking that lets you better understand yourself, sexually. Taoist wanking is about simplifying wanking in a honest and […]

Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal depth […]

SEXUALLY REPRESSED

You would think today’s society is one of the least sexually repressed you could encounter, but is it? Dillon Toyne explains With sex openly discussed on TV, in magazines and on the internet have […]

How to Deal with Stress at Work?

You sit here for days saying, This is strange business. You’re the strange business. You have the energy of the sun in you, but you keep knotting it up at the base of your […]

Sex is not a goddamn performance

Sex is not a goddamn performance. Sex should feel as natural as drinking water. It should not require confidence. Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe. Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening pupils, ripening state […]

the liberator of truth, energy and beauty.

The most irresistible charm of youth is its bubbling enthusiasm. Youth sees no darkness ahead – no defile that has no outlet – it forgets that there is such a thing as failure in […]

complete and repeated genital gratification

Dear Mr Cox, I’m writing with a question – but first let me just say that you have what I think is a very enlightened and enlightening website. Personally, I find the references to […]

A New Recruit

I was a new recruit in the US Air Force, just out of basic training and on my 9-month training assignment in an air base just outside of Denver, Colorado. Not having the opportunity […]

The Best Sex You Will Ever Have, will be with Yourself?

A study in Psychology Today, found a great misconception about men’s masturbating habits is that if they’re in a sexually healthy relationship, they’ll masturbate less. However this isn’t the case. “Masturbation isn’t a feeble […]

the most sensual sexual pleasure

For many men the frenulum and the perineum are the most sensitive part of their body for sexual pleasure. Researchers asked 81 healthy men to rate the erotic sensitivity of different areas of their bodies, including […]

Love yourself

Listen to yourself to the subtle flows of emotion, desire coursing through your body. You need not conform to any boxes, any borders. Desires overflow these simple lines designed to control, to contain. Love […]

Shibari Men

To be honest I haven’t a clue about the meaning of shibari, butt, I’m told Kinbaku means “tight binding,” while Kinbaku-bi literally means “the beauty of tight binding.” Kinbaku is a Japanese style of bondage […]

Bernhard Hegemann – a german exhibitionistic guy

Bernhard Hegemann, a german exhibitionistic guy loves being nude and showing himself off to the world ? Here’s his favourite nude-pic with a nice photo-edited effect.Hope, you like it a little? Related CoxologyA New […]

Does marijuana cause erectile dysfunction?

According to a recent article on the MedicalNewsToday webshite, marijuana can cause erectile dysfunction. If you read the article carefully you will see that is actually the journalist’s opinion rather than something that is […]

TanricK Magick

Seb, Your website is amazing and very interesting. I have learnt a lot in just reading through the letters and correspondence. Sex is a very powerful language and if you are into the tantric […]

Porn Yoga – So you think you can wank

A very open film to the taboos of self-love. Orgasmic does not stand for orgasm but for high sexual energy. Yoga stands for the conscious connection to the body and the daily practice. “Orgasmic […]

The Mystery of Sex Transmutation

Thanks for sharing this. You’ve put a modern take on classic tantric practice. I tend to agree with your take on energy dissipation during masturbation. However I find my energy amplified when I start […]

letting the sun in…

The men I respect most are the ones that let the sun in. They live a sex life that’s magnificent and slightly out of the ordinary. They are not following a script, they are […]