Through association with The New School of Erotic Touch and The Orgasmic Yoga Institute, Mr Cox offers hundreds of hours of Online Erotic Touch Male Massage Classes, teachings and clips that explore Eros in a healthy, informative medium. Based on modern Sexological Bodywork, Somatics and ancient practices from Tantra and Taoism, these wonderful video courses … Read moreOnline Erotic Male Massage Workshop
Most men have a deep-down instinct for male friendships. It’s true most men are “homosexual” in their social relationships. Beside, our base instincts tells us to “compare” to other men, especially in looks, athletic figure, cock size, cut or uncut. We all human beings wish to have more freedom even to the point of touching another man’s body, cock, etc. Perhaps even trying to fuck a man or vice-versa. This does not mean that all males are either bisexual or gay, but there is something there, according to Freud, that makes kinky when we think about other men, especially close male friends. So, having an obsession with gay porno, doesn’t necessarily mean that you are gay. Most of us keep this obsession for gay porno and large dicks hidden in out hearts. We have been repressed by society, Judeo-Christian religion, and our own manliness. Most men would love to feel free and touch their closest male friend’s cock, even some would love to suck it, or vice-versa. We males are not 0ne hundred percent straight. That’s for sure! So, don’t feel bad. Anon
Thanks Richard for a wonderful piece of writing, it has given me a hard on just reading it! Like you, I have also always enjoyed being nude with other naked men and had fantasies about having close physical contact with another man. My own particular fetish is to be naked and restrained (bound and gagged) … Read moreblindfolded, bound, gagged, massaged
I’ve read quite a bit on your site and it all sounds so exciting, yet somehow comforting. I am married, mid thirties, British and consider myself straight but have become very “curious” over time to experience a male massage and some level of physical intimacy with a man. I have zero experience but would love … Read moreshy and body conscious?
For me Tantric Male Massage is an art. We need to practice our art and the best way to practice is to get paid. This hands-on practical workshop will be encouraged to develop your own erotic energy ritual, your own magickal tantric male massage. This one day workshop will guide you to success. Become A … Read moreMen Only Tantric Massage Training
I am a married guy who would like to combine a massage with me exploring being relaxed around the power of another man’s phallus. For years I have been both attracted and intimidated by the power of men’s cocks which if I am honest I crave to worship. I have had this craving for many … Read moreworship my big cock
Massage and sensuality are all about energy, and the age and shape of the body are less important, yet perception is that an adonis is fully adorable even though they may not be skilled in massage. Why do we equate skill with body beautiful? M
Personally I don’t equate skill with a beautiful body. Anyway, although it may be a cliché, beauty very much comes from within. J
I would agree with J. I have built up a network of massage exchange partners of all shapes & sizes, sexualities and genders ranging from skinny (me) to more than a few extra pounds none of us feel it is important to look like a Greek god/goddess in order to give a skilled massage.
Its interesting that neither person who has replied relate massage skill and body beautiful. I would agree with them as after many years have found that massage skill and energy are what matters, but Ive also seen people going straight for the adonis type when selecting partners to massage (even though they dont know the ability of the other). Ive noticed on here a preconception of people by age and beauty. M
Hi – I have always been hugely impressed by your sites and philosophies and often wondered about seeking to visit. I do have kind of a problem and wonder whether you feel that you might be able to help.
I am 47 and only fairly recently discovered the pleasure that is to be had from being with men but i am left rather hurt and frustrated by the fact I have never really experienced pleasure from being fucked. I sometimes catch glimpses of the pleasure to be had from a cock in the arse and am very much up for bondage and a bit of mild domination and pain but somehow when it comes to being fucked it is not comfortable and pretty unfulfilling. i am pretty sure this is due to a lack of experience and relaxation on my part and perhaps over eagerness and lack of sensitivity on the part of my partners so far. I am absolutely sure that a more sympathetic experience would produce the kind of pleasure and fulfillment I am looking for. I can imagine myself tied in a sling chair and gently but firmly taken in hand by an expert and really shown what a man can do. Might you be able to help me with this?
Gently and with commitment. Like slow, meaningful strokes and lots of eye contact gives a deeper connection. Both hands would be great as opposed to the usual one hand, and then sometimes firmer grasps and working to a more fast rhythm quality and then slowing down to a more gentler pace with oil and also without … Read moreLust for life taoist penis massage
I am sitting quietly in a white, wide, smooth wooden floored hallway facing, a few yards ahead of me, a doorway. I can see in an adjacent room a naked cellist playing Bach. He sits on a stool with his back to me and I watch the movement of his back as he bows his instrument. I am unaware of time passing as I sit absorbed in the beauty of the music but am suddenly aware of three naked men standing before me.
One is heavy built and hairy, with a grey bushy beard and shaved head. His genitals are pendulous, one nipple is pierced and his smile is warm and friendly. His two younger companions are smoother and have blonde hair grown down to their shoulders and they could easily be twins. I am raised to my feet and my clothes gently and slowly removed by my three attendants. They are folded neatly in a pile and carried away. I am led by the hand, down the corridor, into a light, warm room where a massage table draped with white cotton sheets awaits me. I am lifted onto the table, placed on my belly and my body covered with a soft light sheet that I can barely feel and thus begins my transportation into a world I have only every glimpsed before. In the seeming eternity that follows I am lifted and rolled, stroked and fondled, oiled and massaged from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. No part of me is left untouched: my nipples are gentled pinched; my balls cupped and stroked; my buttocks kneaded and slapped; my dick encouraged to grow and discouraged from cumming.
All the while I am aware of my three angels moving around me, their fingers at work, their genitals soft and hard brushing me, their breath on my skin, their mouths round my dick.
On my back with my legs spread and gently massaged by the twins, my anus is stroked and opened by the bear and I feel his lubricated finger slowly entering my body and searching for my prostate. My dick seems gigantic by this time, bigger than it has ever been and an electric buzz permeates my body as, using fingers, mouths and hands, my three supermen encourage me to an orgasm like I’ve never experienced before. By giving myself up totally to these three benign strangers, taking me beyond a point where I can no longer control my genitals in any way, I have a glimpse of paradise. This is not sex anymore this is a spiritual experience, a holy communion with the erotic, sensual part of me, a lovemaking that goes beyond the everyday. I lie sated, my cum in a pool all over my belly, my three companions still holding various points of my body, my dick throbbing in its last moments of ejaculation.
The twins lap up my ejaculate with their tongues and cover me with the soft sheet, allowing me to rest. Eventually I am escorted to a shower where the three wash me gently and enclose me with their bodies. I feel them hard against me and my own dick rises once again. The three cum over me and for the first time I can enjoy seeing them erect and proud as spontaneously, without the aid of touch, I cum again. Soon we are all clean and I am wrapped in soft, warm, white towels and we sit in a group with glasses of cold water and share our experience of what has just taken place. TOM SOUTHERN
I like to receive massages in a comfortable place, not very bright, without rush, naked in a bed and start form head to toes and then concentrate in between my belly button and my thighs 😉 Fit guy with some experience massaging FIT males, happy to learn more. I prefer te relaxing erotic massages over … Read morethe freedom of being naked 😉
Hi Seb, Woke up this morning thinking about you and realized it was time to sit down and share a few thoughts with you. I’ve never met you but have visited your site a lot over the past year or so and invested more than a few hours there each time. There’s something really fascinating … Read moremore patient and creative with getting to orgasm
GP writes about his male massage experiences in Sri Lanka
I was on a 14 day trip to Sri Lanka in 2010 – 7 days on the beach and 7 days touring the cultural triangle. We arrived at a hotel in Habanara about 5pm to visit the sites the next day; it was a nice modern hotel but as it was out of season, and earily very quiet. The journey from our beach base had been quite hard – 4.5 hours in a minibus so I checked into my room and prepared to have a nap before dinner. In the room was a leaflet detailing the massages and ayervedic health treatments available. As i had two hours to kill, I thought a nice relaxing massage would help ease some of the muscle tension from all that coach travel. I wandered down to the bar area and asked the barman – the only member of staff around – if it was possible to book a massage. He asked when and I said now if possible, seeing as there were so few guests in the hotel. He flashed me a smile, picked up the phone and I presumed was calling for one of the girls from the beauty spa to come and collect me. Instead, another guy turned up in uniform and took over his bar duties. He said follow me and led me to the hut where massages were conducted. The guy was dark skinned, had a smile to die for, and was bigger built than most Sri Lankans but not an ounce of fat on him. He casually said “strip”, threw a towel at me, told me to sit down and then disappeared. I nervously did and it seemed like ages before he returned.
He came back in the room and said get on the massage table face down quite forcibly, which surprised me and then put on the radio which was tuned to a local station. So much for relaxing whale music then, I thought. No sooner had my face hit the surface of the massage table he tugged at the towel which he’d told me to wrap myself in. I was left exposed and felt a mixture of vulnerability given this was my first massage experience, excitement, and eager anticipation. He started chatting to me which I hated – either you do a relaxing massage or we can have a chat in the bar. But then he said so are you married? I said no and he replied are you looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend? This completely threw me off track as Sri Lankan culture is quite reserved and all I managed to mutter was maybe. I then berated myself for saying something so meaningless! But the next thing I knew he was applying massage oil along the backs of my legs, buttocks letting it drip between my crack. His strong hands then started to massage in the oil and almost immediately as his hands rubbed up my legs he let a thumb linger near my crack. I knew then this was not going to be your average massage. I was so worked up within minutes that I almost came on the spot as he firmly yet softly explored my calves, buttocks and and then he slowly and delicately touched my sack on the down stroke.
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I was already in heaven and thought to myself, I’m not going to see the guy again so go with the flow and just enjoy it. He moved up to my back and shoulders and it was there that I glimpsed the outline of a massive cock through his loose white linen trousers. I was tempted to grab it but resisted. The massage of the shoulders and back wasn’t that great to be honest – almost a token gesture – and luckily he moved back around the table and focused on the my legs and buttocks again. By this time I was so hard I thought I’d explode. Suddenly his long strokes turned much shorter as he zeroed in on my crack. Before I knew what was going on he was probing my willing hole with his fingers with one hand and had somehow pulled my stiff cock down and was massaging it with my balls. It was when he pushed and touched my prostate that I let out a huge groan and he instructed me to turn over. I did and all British reserve had gone now. I didnt care I was butt naked with the biggest hard on I had ever had and was oozing pre-cum. He pushed my legs apart and made me bend my knees as he focused again on my prostate whilst gently massing the tip of my cock. By now I was in oblivion and he expertly continued to massage the cock with one hand and gently stimulate my prostrate with the other.
After probably 10 minutes of the exquisite sensations, I suddenly started to tense as I could feel I was going to come. Despite willing myself to hold on, I knew it was futile and so for the next 30 seconds I just enjoyed the growing sense of joy. He continued to work on me yet at the same time moved around the side of the table and his cock was exposed, rigid, close to my chest. Inevitably I came, more than I had ever done before, and the spunk hit my chin and cheeks. Amazingly, as I did, so did he all over my chest without anyone even touching it. He disappeared after for about 10 minutes as I composed myself and then re-emerged. Matter of factly he asked was the massage any good. I smiled and he beamed back at me. I didn’t make dinner that night. After wanking myself off twice reliving the whole exoctic experience I slept for 10 hours. We left the next morning, and the staff lined up to bid us farewell. I hardly acknowledged the barman/masseur but am sure I saw a swelling in his trousers, and vowed to return another year. I have had a few male massages since, but none have come anywhere near to this experience. By GP
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Maybe I will ask a silly question can someone explain a little bit more how does the tantric male massage works? I am new to this one and would like to understand more of it 🙂 thanks
In Tantric Philosophy there is no such thing as a silly question. What i like about tantra, is it’s simplicity. You simply touch with an intention to make your partner feel amazing. The tantra massage is a prayer. A slow respectful full body sensual massage. In Tantric philosophy, all a man’s goodness comes from his lingam(penis).
So this sacred intimacy massage involves very relaxed breathing and slow awakening of the lingam to create a magickal energy that we circulate to certain sacred points(called chakras) in his body. Mr Cox
Hi Seb, I hope you are well. I hope you find the time to read this e-mail with patience and understanding. First let me tell you about my situation and how I feel and then you can tell me if or how you are able to help me. I’m 24, a gay man. I have … Read morenot sexually active
Starting of relaxing and slowly building to a deeper massage with a firm grip and trimmed nails. I like my penis massaged bi a group, by a couple or individual, in public so others see my pleasure, slowly and teasing with lots of edging, ball massage too. Light strokes, alternating rhythm, just under the head. … Read morefirm grip and trimmed nails
Seb, I’m a married man but sex no longer happens at home and hasn’t done for some time now and because I get so frustrated I have to resort to wanking, I took the advice of a friend and have for a couple of years now been seeing a lady who gives me a nice relaxing massage with a “Happy Ending”, At the week end and because she doesn’t have a computer and wants to improve her sexual understanding she asked me to Google Tantric and Rosebud Massage neither of which I had heard of before.
I came across your site and read with intrigue the various comments regarding your service. I’m not gay and have never sought a relationship with another man. I have had my cock handled by females in the past but never by a man neither have I had a mans cock in my hand. All of this would be a completely new experience. The thought of being sexually stimulated in the way that you and some of your clients describe is, I must say, very appealing. Unlike you, I don’t have a very big cock. When errect one hand will cover it so I’m not sure if that’s the reason that my wife is no longer interested in sex. The lady who I see manages to satisfy my needs but I thought I might explore alternatives. Can you please let me know if I would benefit from one of your sessions and, if so, how much would it cost? Regards. George.?
George, good to hear from you. Most of the men who come for a male massage are heterosexual. It simply an opportunity to relax and enjoy touch without feeling you have to perform. Touching another man’s cock is an amazing feeling, it’s like touching something that helped to create you. Actually it is a bit like touching yourself. I think you would benefit from having one of my celebration sessions, as if you have the balls to do this, you will probably have the balls to do any thing. It’s not good enough to satisfy your needs, you have to take a step beyond that. The size of your cock is not important in relation to the massage, it’s more about the size of your orgasm. My sessions last about 90 minutes on the massage table and some time to relax. Let me know if you would like to book a massage. Happy days, mr cox
Hi Seb. I’m very curious about my first male massage. Having read your first time section I find myself feeling incredibly aroused. The thought of your fat cock brushing against my hand as you massage by buttocks drives me wild. I’ve always been curious about seeing, touching and enjoying another mans cock. I was wandering … Read moreheterosexual constraints