Why Women don’t give Blowjobs

A woman wrote on vice.com “I currently have a man in my life who I’m not exactly dating, but who comes over about once a week to eat me out. The only thing I give him in return is a pat on the back for doing a good job. Some might think this arrangement is strange, but I prefer to think of it as pretty damn close to perfect. It was on our second date that I first gave him the opportunity to suck on my clitoris. After thanking him for giving me a ride home, I simply said, “Want to come up to my place and eat me out?” He gave me an enthusiastic yes, and we got to it. I sat on his face until I came, then sent him home.

This has been our arrangement for a little over two months now. If you’re wondering why we don’t have sex, it’s because I have made a promise to myself not to have sex until I’m in a relationship. While this guy is obviously very generous, the chemistry is not really there when it comes to the little things, like conversation”. Feel free to leave a reply below

My girlfriend and I have a simple arrangement: What I do with my male friends is just between us, so long as no penetration is involved. (Which is fine, buttholes aren’t sexy to me, and my penis is in the “too big for anal” range anyway.) The good side of this is, my sex drive is much higher than hers, so, yeah, friends come over, pop in a porno, enjoy ourselves. Jon

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Tantric Brojobs

When you catch god’s cock

in your hand and, shaping

your lips to an ‘O’, lays them lightly to its tip,

moving your head in tiny circles,

this first step is called “Nimitta” (Touching).

great thick fat cocks outdoors 2Next, grasping god’s head in your hand,

you clamp your lips tightly about the shaft,

first on one side then the other,

taking great care that your teeth don’t hurt god:

this is “Parshvatoddashta” (Fluttering at the Sides).

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Now you takes the head of god

gently between your lips,

by turns pressing, kissing it tenderly

and pulling at its soft skin:

this is “Bahiha-samdansha” (the Outer Pincers).

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If next you allow god to slide

completely into your mouth

and press god firmly between your lips,

holding a moment before pulling away,

it is “Antaha-samdansha” (the Inner Pincers).

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When, taking god in your hand

and making your lips very round,

you press fierce kisses along its whole length,

sucking as you would at your lower lip,

it is called “Chumbitaka” (Kissing).

authentic cocksuckers 67If, while kissing, you let your tongue

flick all over god

and then, pointing it, strikes repeatedly

at the sensitive glans-tip,

it becomes “Parimrshtaka” (Striking at the Tip).

And now, fired by passion, you takes

God deep into your mouth,

pulling upon it and sucking as vigorously

as though you were sucking clean a mango-stone:

this is “Amrachushita” (Sucking a Mango).

gif-tantric-mouthWhen you sense that his orgasm

is imminent you swallow up the whole penis,

sucking and working upon it

with lips and tongue until you spend:

this is “Sangara” (Swallowed Whole)

If the pair of you lie side by side,

facing opposite ways,

and kiss each other’s secret parts

using the fifteen techniques described above,

it is known as “Kakila” (The Crow),

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CONFESSIONS STR8 MEN & GAY PORN

I like to watch gay porn for two reasons. The first is that I had a three or four year period where I explored gay sex when I was in my 30’s. Fresh out of a divorce I was living in a gay neighborhood and got curious. I tried it with several different men and definitely enjoyed it. I met a a fabulous black man that I actually had a two year relationship with. He really took me places sexually I had never been to before. He was the only man that made me consider my true sexual preference. After two years he moved back to Chicago. I never met another man that had the same effect on me. The second reason is that I still find a nice sized cock to be a beautiful thing.I eventually drifted back to women. I still found them more attractive than most men. I finally met and married my second wife. She knows nothing of my past and would never understand or tolerate it. I love sex with women, but the memories of that two year period, still tempt me every now and then. Michael

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I am a straight (maybe Bi) male and I have watched gay porn on more than one occasion. I have masturbated to it before too. Let me start by saying I enjoy having sex with women, a lot. I’ve never had sex with a guy, but would be open to the idea. I’ve used toys before too and know that it feels good. Beyond curiosity and that it is arousing, I don’t know of any other reason to watch gay porn… You can’t help what turns you on sexually, so you might as well except it and explore yourself.

I just tend to find a lot of gay porn is relevant to my interests in a way that some straight porn isn’t. I don’t like watching sloppy, gaggy blow jobs and on the whole gay porn has much cleaner bjs at least from what I’ve seen. It’s about 70/30 straight to gay watching. I don’t like twinks or super swole dudes. I generally watch college vids, hazing type deals, straight for pay, nothing with kissing/caressing. Just the sex please. I’ve never had any inclination for a male outside of gay porn, I like many other guys here were totally grossed out by it and it became this taboo in my mind and then I decided to just watch one and saw that it really wasn’t so bad. I’m sort of a voyeur in that regard and just like watching gay, straight, trans, whatever.

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On rare occasion, I watch gay porn because my dick tells me that’s what I want to be watching. I’m not gay, I just sometimes get this urge that says “watch a man rail another dude in the ass.”

From : Do any straight guys watch gay porn as a fetish rather than an aspect of your sexual orientation.

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Hi Seb – I reckon i am not a bad looking lad. Spitting image of footballer Rio ferdinand so people say. Work for local council and live with my gf and 2 kids. She has always refused to give me bj because I am averse to eating pussy. Nothing I do or say will get her to suck dick. 60 year old woman lives next door who babysits, she has a black boyfriend, Frank. I thought he was in his 40s as he looks younger than her so am now surprised to discover he is nearly 60. A massive guy he stays there 4 or 5 nights a week. Last August I helped him tidy up Joan’s back garden. Gf and kids were at her mum’s. She made us bacon sarnies and while we ate she teased me about not wanting to go down on my gf. I was dead embarrassed as I hadn’t known that Kate discussed things like that with Joan. One thing led to another and 3 of us ended up in her bedroom. She persuaded me to lick her out before Frank fucked her. It was fuckin awful. She sucked me off as Frank banged between her thighs. When she went for a bath I was shocked when Frank grabbed me and started eating my arse! I actually came. He then demanded I rim him. I didn’t fancy that but now admit I was turned on by his bulk. He is very black, 6 foot plus and about 16 stone. His thighs and arse are huge, and not fat just solid meat. His balls had a strong smell but I found I enjoyed eating his arsehole. This has really shaken me. Always had an interest in other lads cocks. A few weeks later I let him fuck me but as he pistoned me it fuckin hurt and I felt really horrible but I want more of him. I let him fuck my face and arse and feel awful but can’t say no. Am I showing my true colours or just being a daft twat? bj

BJ, I think you are a star. At 20 it’s time to explore sex, try everything but if you don’t like it dont do it. If any thing hurts or is uncomfortable it’s not being done correctly. When your having sex it’s time to be selfish, and get the respect you deserve. If your not getting what you want, you won’t be satisfied. Try being a little more dominant. If people don’t add up you have to subtract them, don’t be polite, simply tell them to fuck off. Always remember the first thing I said to you, a big hug, seb cox

 

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hi Mr Cox, you pick me as cock of the month before and thank you for that I’m so flattered, I will be 22 in august next yr and I know your the only person can only answer this, my cock is very sensitive I cum fast everytime I get a blowjob, the sensation I feel is incredibly good, I already used stuff to delay my ejaculation but still don’t work and how will i stop my uncontrollable precum, my crotch is wet all the time, and it causes a funky aroma

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Hello sexy, I think you are a star. You have a very very beautiful cock. You are probably cumm_ing fast because your cock is so sensitive. There are a few things you can do help make it less sensitive. When you are chilling out play with your cock without getting an erection. Holding your cock at the base slap it from right to left hitting the head on opposite legs. You can be quite vigorous with this part of your ritual. Wear a metal cock ring and some light coloured tight fitting jogging pants(no underwear) and go for a swift walk for an hour every day. During sex, it’s really important that you allow your cock to go from very erect to semi-erect as often as possible. Before getting a blow job tip your cock in a jar of honey and get your beloved to lick your frenulum at least 81 times. In relation to the funky aroma, I know some men and women who would be driven completely crazy with lust by your aroma.  Every few days wash your cock and foreskin. Never use a bar of soap, something in it’s contents can cause slight irritation.  I like to use Clean&Clear, an exfoliating daily wash by Johnson & Johnson, available in the Uk at Boots. Apply it liberally directly on the cock. Then wash it down firstly with cold water and then, with warm. Then to finish the ritual I use “Original Source” Tea Tree & Mint Shower gell. Never use an antibacterial soap, as this cause damage to the environment, you can image how much good it would do your very beauty. A big hug, seb cox

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