toast my butt and roast my nutts

I’m loving the spring sunshine in Melbourne today and am lying bare-arsed in the back yard as I write. Had a swim at the local pool in the morning sun followed by a sauna and a good long shower flopping with the BSDs in the men’s changing room. Blokes unashamed of being nude together is … Read moretoast my butt and roast my nutts

My Little Tony

Interesting site you have here. I came across it a half hour ago and have been reading everything. I’ve wondered about male anal orgasm before, but couldn’t find much info. I am straight, but I’ve always enjoyed anal stimulation. I haven’t been with many women who had an interest in it, either giving or receiving, so it’s been something that I explored on my own. At one point, I had a nice dildo that a girlfriend had left at my place.

I played with that when I had the chance, but it wasnt here for long before she retrieved it. I was close to an orgasm once with that thing, but I had a slight elbow injury a the time and had to stop. I’m thinking about letting a guy fuck me, but I dont want it to be all lovey dovey or anything because that would turn me off. I’m not attracted to men, I just want to be fucked. My question is, what would gay/bi guys think about that? I would need to find a mostly straight acting guy that just wanted to get to it. Have any suggestions (other than the obvious safety concerns)?

Mr Cox Replies : For many men getting fucked is their very best therapy. It has nothing to do with being gay bi or str8 . Everyman should at least once in his life experience a cock in his arse. I am basically a fucker but on the one time I have been fucked I learned a lot about fucking, it made me a better fucker. Before this experience I considered myself to be the best fucker in the world. Butt after my experience I realised I simply hadn’t got a fucking clue. I’ve since discovered that fucking men is a very sacred intimate art. It’s not just about techniques, it’s more importantly about intention. I used to be a professional fucker. My intention was always very clear to make the man feel absolutely amazing, on both a physical and spiritual level.

another man’s cock

It’s certainly not what you would discuss with your mates down the pub on a Saturday night. But I am very aware that in reality it’s a lot more common than most str8 men would care to admit. For most str8 men it’s something they think of while masturbating, or having sex. It remains a very private fantasy. Others will experiment, they will occasionally feel a real need to have physical contact with another man, or simply to touch another man’s cock. 

Some men are very disturbed by this tiny part of their sexuality and it becomes a very big issue for them. These men often become very loud, very homophobic. So the next time you hear some guy shouting about “queers” and all that, don’t be too harsh on him just smile and politely tell him you understand what his problem is.

To tell us about your cock experiences please leave a comment below.

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a major breach of male etiquette

I wonder how men feel about having their cocks touched by a friend? I have a friend and have been considering what he’d think if I was to reach out and very gently touched this clothed penis. Would he consider it a major breach of male etiquette, or would it be something that he’d like … Read morea major breach of male etiquette

worship my big cock

I am a married guy who would like to combine a massage with me exploring being relaxed around the power of another man’s phallus. For years I have been both attracted and intimidated by the power of men’s cocks which if I am honest I crave to worship. I have had this craving for many years but never acted on it. Can you help me live this please? Al

I agree a mans cock has a silent power I too worship the male organ and I totally submit to its dominance because I am a slave under its spell I am a lover of all things cock. Barry

hi barry i suppose thats why we love men and cock. we know that it brings life and strength. this is why i worship and submit to cock. we understand its power. we therefore want to submit and please it all cocks are awesome. ive been gay most of my life and i think after all this feel this is something all men gay or straight need to learn instead of making fun silly jokes and buffoonery. Ivan

 being gay i love cock truly and totally worship it. cock represents masculinity and strength its a fountain of youth. i am a slave to cock. Ivan

a spiritual plateau experience…

Mr. Cox, I am an American married male, 52 years old, who has been practising meditation for the past 25 years. In 1972, when I was 20 years old, I had a spiritual plateau experience.

My wife is 40 years old and we both enjoy sharing our most intimate sexual desires with each other. A few years back we had an intimate relationship with another man who was 6 years my wife’s junior. He visited us nearly every other Sunday evening for over a year.  It started out being mainly about sex and ended up being much more about exploring the kind of intimacy that requires extraordinary openness and honesty. Like you I realize that the key to experiencing profound awareness, sexual or otherwise, depends almost solely on one’s ability to disappear; to forget that “I” exists, to stop thinking, to leave the ego behind since the ego requires thought to exist.

The ego is a wonderful tool but a horrible master. When Ram Dass was giving a seminar someone asked him if meditation had transformed him. His surprising reply was something like, “Not at all. Meditation has merely allowed me to become a connoisseur of my own neurosis.” I believe that we are only capable of loving and hating others to the degree that we are capable of loving and hating ourself. As you have stated, we can only accept and hug others to the degree that we can accept and hug ourself. Therefore, I am both fascinated by your web site and a little jealous.

Thanks for reminding me that I’m not alone. Also, please let me know if you ever consider opening an overseas office. Anon

Tantric Brojobs

When you catch god’s cock

in your hand and, shaping

your lips to an ‘O’, lays them lightly to its tip,

moving your head in tiny circles,

this first step is called “Nimitta” (Touching).

great thick fat cocks outdoors 2Next, grasping god’s head in your hand,

you clamp your lips tightly about the shaft,

first on one side then the other,

taking great care that your teeth don’t hurt god:

this is “Parshvatoddashta” (Fluttering at the Sides).

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Now you takes the head of god

gently between your lips,

by turns pressing, kissing it tenderly

and pulling at its soft skin:

this is “Bahiha-samdansha” (the Outer Pincers).

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If next you allow god to slide

completely into your mouth

and press god firmly between your lips,

holding a moment before pulling away,

it is “Antaha-samdansha” (the Inner Pincers).

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When, taking god in your hand

and making your lips very round,

you press fierce kisses along its whole length,

sucking as you would at your lower lip,

it is called “Chumbitaka” (Kissing).

authentic cocksuckers 67If, while kissing, you let your tongue

flick all over god

and then, pointing it, strikes repeatedly

at the sensitive glans-tip,

it becomes “Parimrshtaka” (Striking at the Tip).

And now, fired by passion, you takes

God deep into your mouth,

pulling upon it and sucking as vigorously

as though you were sucking clean a mango-stone:

this is “Amrachushita” (Sucking a Mango).

gif-tantric-mouthWhen you sense that his orgasm

is imminent you swallow up the whole penis,

sucking and working upon it

with lips and tongue until you spend:

this is “Sangara” (Swallowed Whole)

If the pair of you lie side by side,

facing opposite ways,

and kiss each other’s secret parts

using the fifteen techniques described above,

it is known as “Kakila” (The Crow),

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just seeing another mans cock

I have always thought about just actually really seeing another mans cock, but in just my dreams and books, never have in real life, always wanted to touch another cock and see how it would feel and maybe get to suck on one, but this dream has been going on for 10 years now, and still no luck, all web sites to find someone in my area u have to pay for just to find someone, I guess I might not never get the chance to find out how it rally is to be with another cock, maybe someday I can 69 with another man and maybe go further, but I guess I will still be looking for that first time. Jon

a tall dark masculine man 4 solosexual friendship

I am a tall dark masculine man with a 7.5 inch cock with a bulging mushroom head and fairly big balls and I love to wank off regularly, stroking my long thick shaft and massaging my balls tightly. I’m 38 but like mature men. I would like to have a solosexual freindship with another man … Read morea tall dark masculine man 4 solosexual friendship

magnificent caring loving

He was magnificent, caring  loving, he’d open me with his tongue and fingers, and I’d do the same for him, and then we’d go for it turn by turn, couldn’t stop. The first sign that things were moving onto another dimension was on Ron’s side.

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I’d take a breather, still inside him, and he’d clench hold me, quite lightly, sort of milking me while I played with his nipples and he played with my balls or put a finger inside me. We’d keep this up as long as we could – sort of nirvana plateau, ecstasy – and then he’d suddenly go into spasm, incredible feelings for me, and he’d be out his mind; and then I’d start thrusting again, and so on. So he tried that on me, alternating long,  slow thrusting – and, Jesus, was he a master! – with long, still passages, when he’d hardly move, and I’d lightly grip him and get myself flickering, and then it would go out of control, and I’d be coming and coming; and then eventually it would kind of fuse into a huge, generalized sensation, my whole body shaking and contracting, as he drove into me, and we’d shout the rooftops down – and then start all over again. (that’s the good thing about that stuff – and no hangover in the morning, just more of the same. Aren’t we lucky, mate! You’ve obviously had the same experience. The secret is surrender, stillness and patience; loving yourself as well as the other. Your word, intimacy. Creating something.
Cheers – JEREMY

str8 @ 48 ?

Hi, Mr Cox, before I read your blog I thought I was straight, but now I’m not so sure as I really do want to stroke and suck the cocks pictured. Trouble is I’m too afraid to set up a meeting with a  dude. Also I’m married and don’t want to fuck myself up with … Read morestr8 @ 48 ?

CONFESSIONS STR8 MEN & GAY PORN

I like to watch gay porn for two reasons. The first is that I had a three or four year period where I explored gay sex when I was in my 30’s. Fresh out of a divorce I was living in a gay neighborhood and got curious. I tried it with several different men and definitely enjoyed it. I met a a fabulous black man that I actually had a two year relationship with. He really took me places sexually I had never been to before. He was the only man that made me consider my true sexual preference. After two years he moved back to Chicago. I never met another man that had the same effect on me. The second reason is that I still find a nice sized cock to be a beautiful thing.I eventually drifted back to women. I still found them more attractive than most men. I finally met and married my second wife. She knows nothing of my past and would never understand or tolerate it. I love sex with women, but the memories of that two year period, still tempt me every now and then. Michael

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I am a straight (maybe Bi) male and I have watched gay porn on more than one occasion. I have masturbated to it before too. Let me start by saying I enjoy having sex with women, a lot. I’ve never had sex with a guy, but would be open to the idea. I’ve used toys before too and know that it feels good. Beyond curiosity and that it is arousing, I don’t know of any other reason to watch gay porn… You can’t help what turns you on sexually, so you might as well except it and explore yourself.

I just tend to find a lot of gay porn is relevant to my interests in a way that some straight porn isn’t. I don’t like watching sloppy, gaggy blow jobs and on the whole gay porn has much cleaner bjs at least from what I’ve seen. It’s about 70/30 straight to gay watching. I don’t like twinks or super swole dudes. I generally watch college vids, hazing type deals, straight for pay, nothing with kissing/caressing. Just the sex please. I’ve never had any inclination for a male outside of gay porn, I like many other guys here were totally grossed out by it and it became this taboo in my mind and then I decided to just watch one and saw that it really wasn’t so bad. I’m sort of a voyeur in that regard and just like watching gay, straight, trans, whatever.

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On rare occasion, I watch gay porn because my dick tells me that’s what I want to be watching. I’m not gay, I just sometimes get this urge that says “watch a man rail another dude in the ass.”

From : Do any straight guys watch gay porn as a fetish rather than an aspect of your sexual orientation.

add up or subtract

Hi Seb – I reckon i am not a bad looking lad. Spitting image of footballer Rio ferdinand so people say. Work for local council and live with my gf and 2 kids. She has always refused to give me bj because I am averse to eating pussy. Nothing I do or say will get her to suck dick. 60 year old woman lives next door who babysits, she has a black boyfriend, Frank. I thought he was in his 40s as he looks younger than her so am now surprised to discover he is nearly 60. A massive guy he stays there 4 or 5 nights a week. Last August I helped him tidy up Joan’s back garden. Gf and kids were at her mum’s. She made us bacon sarnies and while we ate she teased me about not wanting to go down on my gf. I was dead embarrassed as I hadn’t known that Kate discussed things like that with Joan. One thing led to another and 3 of us ended up in her bedroom. She persuaded me to lick her out before Frank fucked her. It was fuckin awful. She sucked me off as Frank banged between her thighs. When she went for a bath I was shocked when Frank grabbed me and started eating my arse! I actually came. He then demanded I rim him. I didn’t fancy that but now admit I was turned on by his bulk. He is very black, 6 foot plus and about 16 stone. His thighs and arse are huge, and not fat just solid meat. His balls had a strong smell but I found I enjoyed eating his arsehole. This has really shaken me. Always had an interest in other lads cocks. A few weeks later I let him fuck me but as he pistoned me it fuckin hurt and I felt really horrible but I want more of him. I let him fuck my face and arse and feel awful but can’t say no. Am I showing my true colours or just being a daft twat? bj

BJ, I think you are a star. At 20 it’s time to explore sex, try everything but if you don’t like it dont do it. If any thing hurts or is uncomfortable it’s not being done correctly. When your having sex it’s time to be selfish, and get the respect you deserve. If your not getting what you want, you won’t be satisfied. Try being a little more dominant. If people don’t add up you have to subtract them, don’t be polite, simply tell them to fuck off. Always remember the first thing I said to you, a big hug, seb cox

 

Richard’s 1st

I had never before been intimate with any man: in fact, only a select number of women had ever seen me fully unclothed, and yet a visit to an all male naturist  spa in Budapest, where all of us were unclothed, had awakened a deep seated unfulfilled yearning to be accepted by other men. Richard has … Read moreRichard’s 1st

joking around and horseplay

I have a had an on-going relationship with a str8 married guy for the last 5 years. We only meet up when on business trips together abroad, always at his hotel. There is no kissing or tenderness involved, just manly joking around and horseplay. We might watch a little porn together first. Although I get … Read morejoking around and horseplay

cock of the month

hi Mr Cox, you pick me as cock of the month before and thank you for that I’m so flattered, I will be 22 in august next yr and I know your the only person can only answer this, my cock is very sensitive I cum fast everytime I get a blowjob, the sensation I feel is incredibly good, I already used stuff to delay my ejaculation but still don’t work and how will i stop my uncontrollable precum, my crotch is wet all the time, and it causes a funky aroma

cock-of-the month

Hello sexy, I think you are a star. You have a very very beautiful cock. You are probably cumm_ing fast because your cock is so sensitive. There are a few things you can do help make it less sensitive. When you are chilling out play with your cock without getting an erection. Holding your cock at the base slap it from right to left hitting the head on opposite legs. You can be quite vigorous with this part of your ritual. Wear a metal cock ring and some light coloured tight fitting jogging pants(no underwear) and go for a swift walk for an hour every day. During sex, it’s really important that you allow your cock to go from very erect to semi-erect as often as possible. Before getting a blow job tip your cock in a jar of honey and get your beloved to lick your frenulum at least 81 times. In relation to the funky aroma, I know some men and women who would be driven completely crazy with lust by your aroma.  Every few days wash your cock and foreskin. Never use a bar of soap, something in it’s contents can cause slight irritation.  I like to use Clean&Clear, an exfoliating daily wash by Johnson & Johnson, available in the Uk at Boots. Apply it liberally directly on the cock. Then wash it down firstly with cold water and then, with warm. Then to finish the ritual I use “Original Source” Tea Tree & Mint Shower gell. Never use an antibacterial soap, as this cause damage to the environment, you can image how much good it would do your very beauty. A big hug, seb cox

My best buds dick

My girlfriend will jerk me off while she sucks my best buds dick. he is hung 9 and im 4.7.3. usually this will lead him to go down on her so then while he is busy servicing her cunt with his expert tongue.(trust me he knows what he is doing) ill be down on him. … Read moreMy best buds dick