Took me a while to get to doing this. I like the honesty. We are there for the same thing. Usually no words, just nods and in for a handy shandy and one bends down for a suck. In bushes at parks or in the gents. Surprising what a cross section of blokes are into it and not what one would expect. I’m bi and married so I don’t want an STD, but have always found men very respectful of my limits and boundaries. What’s nice is the appreciative good natured thanks after. Gentlemanly behaviour is what I have experienced – brotherly appreciation and helping each other out, then zip it up and on our way to get on with the day. Business like and non judgemental. Masculine. – BoB
I am 76 and have had sex in mostly gay saunas all over the US and Europe with hundreds of men who are kind, gentle, and just as human as I am. The gross injustice that accompanies our desires and normal needs is a human tragedy largely ignored by all but us. I am thankful to every man who ever sucked my dick or got me off as I am for every man who let me touch or suck their dicks, kiss them, or play with their nipples or butt holes. – Carl Boege