a collective orgasm

While I prefer to please a man as I am pleased, I can adapt the use of my fingers, hands, lips, tongue and mouth to reflect his needs. Ideally (after initial preparation, including the optimal ambiance available) I want our entire naked bodies to be as close as possible without actually touching to absorb each other’s warmth and aura. I always end this procedure by breathing […]

Healing Your Root Chakra

Do you know that area between your arse and your balls? Good man, your perineum. Place your three middle fingers of your left hand there and start to breathe deeply as your vibrate a millimetre per minute towards your anal hips. Use the same fingers on your right hand to vibrate a millimetre per minute towards your 3rd eye chakra. Without actually touching them. Continue to […]

Spiritual HaPenis?

Mr. Cox, One of the most important things which HaPenis in the last times, has been knowing about you. Always wanted to know if erotic male massage could be spiritual like souls making love… if pleasure could be enjoyed in a less instinctive way. Know I know it’s not a dream… you exist! 🙂 Thanks for sharing so many things with us through your website. It’s incredible. […]

TanricK Magick

Seb, Your website is amazing and very interesting. I have learnt a lot in just reading through the letters and correspondence. Sex is a very powerful language and if you are into the tantric arts even more so. I am a practitioner of Tai Chi ( Taoist ) and have had the most amazing sex after practising the art – I always think of my Tai […]

3 times a day

If I had my way I would like to have sex at least 3 times a day. I am 41 years old. My wife is the same age but she only wants to do it every 2 weeks. So never has wanted to experiment in bed. We just do it “normal” style. She wont give head or want to be on top Seb Cox Replies: Paul, […]

The art of gay cruising

Sex expert encourages men to try cruising at least once in their life. Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. The art of gay cruising dates back decades, to the days when “homosexual conduct” was illegal, gay bars didn’t exist, and bathhouses were places people actually went to bathe. Men had to be […]

Subject of Male Orgasm

The subject of male orgasm seems to be almost forbidden in western society. If I wanted to talk to any of my friends about it, they’d think it was at best most indelicate. Western medicine seems determined to stick to a purely missionary view of male orgasm and sexual pleasure, and although there is clearly a different tradition in the East, many writers on these traditions […]

Pink Tantra

Pink Tantra focuses on the heart chakra. Pink is the color of loving kindness, sexual healing, balance, tranquillity, and serenity. Pink brings wholeness to our lives. Place your tantric hands on your heart think of a loving kindness act you done in the last week. Feel that energy in the very tips of your fingertips. Gradually increase your loving kindness into the core of your fingers […]

Online Erotic Male Massage Workshop

Through association with The New School of Erotic Touch and The Orgasmic Yoga Institute, Mr Cox offers hundreds of hours of Online Erotic Touch Male Massage Classes, teachings and clips that explore Eros in a healthy, informative medium. Based on modern Sexological Bodywork, Somatics and ancient practices from Tantra and Taoism, these wonderful video courses provide you with a great way to explore your erotic nature […]